Be yourself. Do what matters. These two are usually in conflict. To indulge vs to control. Play vs work. Orientation vs constraints. Wishes vs whats possible. Wants vs price. Dream vs reality. True self vs whats expected of you. Being yourself means finding your inner truth. Feeling your true desires and expressing them. Releasing yourself out there. Treasuring what you value. Doing what pleases you. Embrace spontaneity fully.

Adjusting your appearance to fit your own mood. Dancing like no body is watching. Perceiving the world from the lense of how it reacts to yourself. Letting the world do its thing. Lifestyle and spontaneity. Doing what matters. Finding what works and what doesnt. Gathering techniques and skills to defeat and conquer. Gaining dominance out there. Conquering. Doing whats right. Dress for your cause. Team up with goal-oriented pals. Hard work brings rewards. Balance indulgence with purpose.

Doing what you have to do because there's no other choice. Being yourself is a feminine principle. Its self centered. It places the self above of the world. Do what matters is a masculine principle. Its externally centered. It places the world above of the self. Feminine flow seeks inner joy; masculine drive conquers external challenges. Each has power when harnessed right. Pure focus in one blinds to the other.

A person focusing on being themselves loses sight of whats important. Loses sight of consequences and cause-effect. A person focusing only on what matters loses their happiness and core identity. So be yourself, do what matters. Channel inner truth into meaningful actions. Let external work reveal your true self. Every bold step grows you irreversibly. This marriage unites self with world harmoniously.